“Yum curry. Can it be done faster? I’m starving.” Rory
No you aren’t. The curry is done. The rice isn’t. I’ll call you when it’s ready. Literally 2 minutes left on the rice at this point
“Ugh you know I hate curry.” Izzy, of course. She either hates all food or loves to fight about all food, I’m not sure which.
Well, I will give you less than I have the other girls but you can either eat it or go to bed because it’s dinner.
“What’s the other stuff?” Evie.
Sides to go with the curry.
“Do we get some of the sides, too?” Addy.
Yes. I will bring them to the table when I come to the table so I get to have some, too.
“Family dinner? I will turn off the tv.” Addy. One of her sisters asked her why and she said “because we are all eating together and we are going to talk and have a great family dinner.” She sounds so much older than 13 at that point.
“You got us chopsticks? Yay!” Izzy
Well, at least she was happy about something.
“Are we only eating Korean food now and that’s why you bought chopsticks?” I don’t remember who said that.
No I just thought chopsticks would be fun.
And that was how dinner began.
Tonight, I made beef curry with beef I got at the Super H Mart that was already cut in tiny cubes specifically for curry (it even said curry on the label for American customers who can’t read korean lol), which saved me so much time. I also made Spicy Bean Sprout Salad which everyone loved and Rustic Korean Spinach which my husband loved and my kids thought was a little too spicy and kimchi that I bought at Super H Mart. I think I’m the only one who liked that lol. But almost everyone tried it even if they knew they didn’t like it. I don’t know why, possibly just because of the chopsticks.
I think my kids ate more of all of the sides than they would have without the chopsticks because duh chopsticks. They were so busy trying to prove they could do better with the chopsticks than their sisters and demonstrating their mad skills that they didn’t think about how much they were eating. I’m just glad they had fun and Izzy actually ate. And I didn’t have to fight with her at all. She ate all her curry and a bunch of the sides. I know that doesn’t sound like a huge accomplishment but trust me it is. We struggle with her daily to get her to eat anything and everything.
We all sat at the table together. Addy turned off the tv without being asked. We talked to each other and shared the sides in community bowls just like at a real Korean restaurant. And when we were done, we just kept sitting there, talking. Eventually, we settled on doing impressions of each other and laughing together. It was such a sweet night together and it had nothing to do with the food, although that was great, too.
It took a while to make the food, but it was totally worth it. Everyone enjoyed it, most of all me.
I don’t know why it can be so hard for me to relax and have fun with my family at the dinner table. I am usually so burnt out by the end of the day, but not tonight. It was wonderful. I wish I knew what was different tonight so I could recreate it.
I mean, I know eating dinner together as a family is important. I know it’s something that my kids need, that can help them feel loved and appreciated and important. I have read that it can keep them on a good path both education wise and lifewise, but a positive family dinner experience can still be elusive and a hard thing to create. At least for me.
Eating dinner as a family and talking. Enjoying the time together. Making happy memories. Relaxing and laughing. Praying God, please let this dinner be the one they remember for all time and let me make more dinnertimes like this. Best. Dinner. Ever.
Just to preserve these recipes, I’m copying and pasting them below:
Korean Spinach, the rustic version
Ingredients:
- 1 bunch spinach
- 2 teaspoon Korean soybean paste (doenjang)
- 2 teaspoon Korean chili paste (gochujang)
- 1 garlic clove, finely minced
- 2 teaspoon sesame oil
- 2 teaspoon sesame seeds
Directions:
- Cut off the tips of spinach and clean thoroughly.
- Boil a pot of water and blanch the spinach for 1 minute.
- Rinse under cold water and squeeze out making a ball shape to remove some water.
- Untangle the spinach in a mixing bowl (cut into a few section if you prefer shorter length)
- Add the rest of the ingredients into the bowl, using your finger tips smear the doenjang and gochujang pastes together to combine and then toss everything together as you gently massage around the spinach, so that every strand of spinach will get seasoned.
- Taste and adjust seasoning as you like.
Spicy Bean Sprout Salad
Ingredients:
- 16 oz bean sprouts, cleaned
- 1/2 cup water
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- 1/2-1 tablespoon Korean chili flakes
- 2 green onion finely chopped
- 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
- 2 teaspoon Korean soy sauce for soup
- 2 teaspoon sesame oil
- 1 tablespoon toasted sesame seeds
- extra salt to season, if needed.
- 1 fresh red chili, sliced, optional
Directions:
- Put 1/2 cup water and 1/2 teaspoon salt in a large pot and spread bean sprouts over. Close with a lid and bring the pot over med-high heat and cook for 6 minutes (You will need to lower the heat a little after about 3 minutes). Do not open the lid during the cooking time. When done, toss the bean sprouts in the liquid first, then strain them out. Discard the liquid.
- Place the sprouts in a large mixing bowl and add chili flakes, green onion, garlic powder, Korean say sauce for soup, sesame oil, and the sesame seeds, and fresh red chili (if using). Toss well to combine with your hand to incorporate the seasoning with the sprouts. Season with salt according to your taste.
These are not my recipes, they are from Beyond Kimchee and they are yummy 🙂